Ben Dover is a standing, from-behind sex position with great g-spot stimulation.
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How to Get Into the Ben Dover Sex Position
- The wife stands and then leans forward with her arms straight until her hands are resting on the floor. If she has trouble reaching the floor, she can rest her hands on a stool or something short.
- Her husband stands behind her and places his hands on each side of her butt to support her.
How to Perform the Ben Dover Sex Position
The husband enters his wife, and they have sex from behind. He must keep his hands on her bottom to help support her.
Tips & Techniques That Add More Stimulation
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- More Powerful Thrusts: Place a love strap around your wife’s waist and use it to pull back as you’re thrusting into her and generate mighty thrusts during sex.
- G-Spot Stimulation: Arche your back a little, point your butt out, and tilt your pelvis so that your vulva is closer to your husband. This will allow for deeper penetration and better g-spot stimulation. Push back as your husband thrusts to provoke deeper penetration and more powerful thrusts. Recommended Reading: How to Increase G-Spot Stimulation During Sex
- Visual Stimulation: Position yourselves so that both of you can look forward in a mirror and watch each other make love. This visual is very stimulating for both men and women!
- Clitoral Stimulation: Use a free hand and use your fingers and maybe a little scream cream or a small vibrator to stimulate your clitoris while making love to your husband.
- Nipple & Breast Stimulation: Wear a pair of nipple suckers while making love to your husband for additional breast stimulation.
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gettingrooved says
We both loved the position.
Great for a quickie, or very nice after she’s been stimulated for a while – primed for g-spot stimulation.
Easy for her to adjust to a good angle for maximum g-spot stimulation, good thrusting and view for him.
Like other standing from behind positions, if height difference is an issue, her wearing heels or finding a small step/ledge in the home can make this possible.