What is the Cowgirl sex position?
Cowgirl is a woman-on-top riding sex position with great depth control, deep penetration, and clitoral stimulation.
Scroll down for details about getting into this pose, a tip plus-size couples will enjoy, and techniques that enhance clitoral stimulation and add nipple stimulation.
How to Have Sex in the Cowgirl Position
- The husband lies on his back on a flat soft surface.
- His wife straddles his pelvic area.
She allows her husband to enter her and then uses her legs to bounce up and down for deep penetration or slide front to back for clitoral stimulation while making love to her husband.
Cumonhispickle Technique: One of the best-feeling ways a woman can orgasm is while her husband is inside her and completely still. This sex position combined with the cumonhispickle technique works well together.
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Sex Tips for Plus Size Women and Men
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Cowgirl is a fantastic sex position, but some full-figured couples might find it hard to enjoy without this easy position adjustment.
- Better Access: Lift his pelvis so gravity can pull his belly away from his pelvis and allow deeper penetration by placing a Liberator Wedge Sex Pillow with the high side facing his feet or a firm, folded pillow under his butt.
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How to Spice up the Cowgirl Sex Position
Have your husband wear a vibrating ring around the base of his penis, so the ring’s vibrator stimulates your clitoris during lovemaking. Apply a drop of scream cream to your clitoris, and either you or your husband can use a free hand to manually stimulate it during intercourse. Check out our in-depth guide on Increasing Clitoral Stimulation During Sex!
Lean forward and support your upper body on your elbows, so your breasts are in your husband’s face during sex. He can kiss and suck on them for more stimulation. You can also wear a pair of nipple clamps for additional breast stimulation while they gently tug on them when they bounce. Your husband can also caress your breasts with his hands and gently roll your nipples between his fingers. Recommended Reading: Benefits of Breast Stimulation During Foreplay & Sex
Sex Routines This Position Is a Part Of
If you like this pose, you should try enjoying it during one of these sex routines.
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Scott says
Continuing on the idea of the “palms up technique” comment, we agree this is a fantastic position for exploring her breasts. I would like to add as husband, always ask how soft/hard your touch should be. We find that different times of the month can drastically change how much pressure to use. Sometimes a soft palm as they bounce is amazing yet other times, pinches and pulls far harder than I would do on my own puts her through the roof. My love has learned to communicate either verbally or even physically by using our hands together to pinch/pull to the desired pressure..which is often harder than I would on my own. It’s all about communication.
Husband Sojourner says
One of our favorites. Husbands a few tips, my wife loves when I hold my palms up and her nipples lightly graze them while bouncing…very erotic for her. Also don’t be afraid to grab hold of her hips and assist with the grinding/bouncing motion, it adds to the intimacy and allows her to go longer. I also echo the wife laying down post cum or to take a break. It’s very intimate and I like to slowly thrust while she lays down.
CFSP says
Thanks for the tips! We’re going to try the palms-up technique. The soaking and slow thrusting while she lays down feels amazing.
BSG says
One of our favorite. Wife does more of a grinding motion while husband has full access with hands for butt rubbing and breast stimulation.
SLS says
Very fun and a great position for wives to take control. Here are a couple of tips to maximize delight. One fun thing to do is for the wife to lay down every so often to kiss and hug her husband and press her breasts into him. This adds greatly to the intimacy of the position while also providing the opportunity for the wife to rest after bouncing for a while. Also, when the wife bounces do be careful that the husband’s penis doesn’t fall out or is bent too much in the wrong direction. Can be very painful if that happens.
Anonymous says
Try putting a large pillow or Liberator Whirl under hubby’s knees to add a “closeness” affect to this position.