What is the Harp sex position?
Harp is a deeply penetrating sex position that’s enjoyed while the wife is on her side and her husband is straddling her.
Scroll down for details about getting into this pose and tips that enhance clitoral and breast stimulation.

How to Have Sex in the Harp Position
- The wife lies on her side and supports her upper body with her elbow on the bed.
- The husband lifts his wife’s upper leg straight up and then straddles her pelvis.
The husband either holds on to his wife’s leg that’s pointing up or supports his upper body with his hands behind her on the bed while making love to her.
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Enhance Pleasure of the Harp Sex Position
The wife or her husband can use her fingers and a drop or two of scream cream or a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris during lovemaking. Check out our in-depth guide on Increasing Clitoral Stimulation During Sex!
The husband can caress his wife’s breasts with one hand, or she can wear a pair of nipple clamps that gently tug on her nipples during sex. Recommended Reading: Benefits of Breast Stimulation During Foreplay & Sex
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