Comments on: Q & A: How can we orgasm together during sex?

By: W. Larsen

W. Larsen — Wed, 31 Dec 2025 00:32:02 +0000

I think the easiest way to orgasm together is to bring the wife to an initial orgasm (usually by patient foreplay culminating in cunnilingus) and then enter her and move in various ways (especially various sorts of thrusting). The initial orgasm tends to make her clitoris and vagina very sensitive (in fact, a husband may need to wait a little bit before entering her). But with that first orgasm, it’s much easier for her to orgasm again during the sexual union, including when the husband reaches his orgasm.

By: James (Jim)

James (Jim) — Wed, 15 Jan 2025 18:25:56 +0000

Not really a comment per se, I am 61 and my wife is in her late 50’s. I have Parkinson’s Disease which makes getting and sustaining an erection difficult. My wife takes extra time to get ready and many times when I am ready she is only slightly aroused, we attempt to get her ready and I lose the erection. This goes back and forth until we settle for “GES” (Good Enough Sex) or she climaxes and if I am able to (sometimes with a penis ring or sometimes without) we go for intercourse. I do take medication to aid in getting an erection. Past mid to late 20’s no problem, divorced at age 35, remarried in early 40’s and that is when ED started, that caused division that ended in divorce shortly before 55. Three years later my wife and I met married three years later and we enjoy sex but only had simultaneous orgasm once using a vibrator. Suggestions?

By: Scott

Scott — Wed, 15 Jan 2025 16:09:53 +0000

My wife and I have been married 20 years and to our memory it’s only happened twice…and we make love very consistently. It’s a wonderful thing when it happens and we would love to have it happen more often but we agree, it can’t be something stressed about. Try for it! It’s great! But if it doesn’t happen, details like this don’t matter. When loving your spouse is the goal, you can’t fail.