Lazy Cowgirl is a comfortable, wife-on-top sex position with deep penetration that makes her clitoris accessible for manual stimulation from their fingers or a vibrator during sex. It also positions the wife’s body, so the husband has a great view of her while having sex.
Scroll down for details about getting into this pose, a tip plus-size couples with appreciate, and techniques that enhance clitoral and breast stimulation.
How to Have Sex in the Lazy Cowgirl Position
- The husband lies on his back with his head on a pillow.
- He brings his knees up and rests his feet on the bed with his legs together to create a lounger for his wife.
- The wife straddles her husband with her knees near his shoulders and sits onto his pelvis.
- She leans back and rests her back on her husband’s legs.
The wife helps her husband enter her and then makes a front-to-back, rolling motion with her pelvis while her clitoris is being stimulated using one of the techniques below. This position doesn’t have a lot of stimulation for the man. It’s mostly for giving the woman the full feeling of being penetrated while enjoying some manual clitoral stimulation.
Cumonhispickle Technique: One of the best-feeling ways a woman can orgasm is while her husband is inside her and completely still. This sex position combined with the cumonhispickle technique works well together.
Help your husband fully insert himself, and then have him stay still while you or he stimulates your clitoris with fingers or your favorite vibrator until you orgasm while he enjoys watching you.
Sex Tips for Full-Figured Couples
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The Lazy Cowgirl Sex Position is perfect for overweight couples with a simple modification that helps move his belly out of the way, so she has better access and deeper penetration.
- Go Deeper: Place a folded pillow or Liberator Wedge Sex Pillow under his butt so that it lifts his pelvis up a little. Gravity will pull his belly back a little so that his member is more available for deeper penetration.
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Tips & Techniques That Add More Stimulation
- Clitoral Stimulation: This position makes her clitoris accessible for either the man or woman to stimulate her clitoris during lovemaking. Use a bullet vibrator, pressure wave clitoral stimulator, or your good old fingers with a bit of scream cream to stimulate her clitoris with orgasm-inducing stimulation while having sex. Check out our in-depth guide on Increasing Clitoral Stimulation During Sex!
- Breast Stimulation: Her breasts are front-and-center while in this position. The husband can caress and fondle his wife’s breasts while making love, or she can wear a pair of nipple suckers/pinchers and make it even hotter. Recommended Reading: Benefits of Breast Stimulation During Foreplay & Sex
Sex Routines This Position Is a Part Of
If you like this pose, you should try enjoying it during one of these sex routines or sex stories, as we like to call them.
- Saddle Up is exclusively a woman-on-top sex story that’s performed in bed. This routine takes advantage of the tremendous clitoral stimulation and the fact that most men can last longer during woman-on-top sex.