Lazy Cowgirl is a comfortable, wife-on-top sex position with deep penetration that also makes her clitoris accessible for manual stimulation from his or her fingers or a vibrator during sex. It also positions the wife’s body so the husband has a great view of her while having sex.
How to Get Into the Lazy Cowgirl Sex Position
- The husband lies on his back with his head on a pillow.
- He brings his knees up and rests his feet on the bed with his legs together to create a lounger for his wife.
- The wife straddles her husband with her knees near his shoulders and sits onto his pelvis.
- She leans back and rests her back on her husband’s legs.
How to Perform the Lazy Cowgirl Sex Position
The wife helps her husband enter her and then makes a front-to-back, rolling motion with her pelvis while her clitoris is being stimulated using one of the techniques below. This position doesn’t have a lot of stimulation for the man. It’s mostly for giving the woman the full feeling of being penetrated while enjoying some manual clitoral stimulation.
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The Lazy Cowgirl Sex Position is really good for couples who are overweight with a simple modification that helps move his belly out of the way so she has better access and deeper penetration.
- Go Deeper: Place a folded pillow or Liberator Wedge Sex Pillow under his butt so that it lifts his pelvis up a little. Gravity will pull his belly back a little so that his member is more available for deeper penetration.
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Tips & Techniques That Add More Stimulation
- Clitoral Stimulation: This position makes her clitoris accessible for either the man or woman to stimulate her clitoris during lovemaking. Use a bullet vibrator, pressure wave clitoral stimulator, or your good old fingers with a little scream cream to stimulate her clitoris with orgasm-inducing stimulation while having sex. Check out our in-depth guide on Increasing Clitoral Stimulation During Sex!
- Breast Stimulation: Her breasts are front-and-center while in this position. The husband can caress and fondle his wife’s breasts while making love, or she can wear a pair of nipple suckers/pinchers and make it even hotter. Recommended Reading: Benefits of Breast Stimulation During Foreplay & Sex