Missionary is an intimate, husband-on-top sex position with deep penetration.
Getting into the Missionary Sex Position
- The wife lies on her back.
- She spreads her legs open, bends her knees, and either supports her legs with her feet on the bed or spreads her legs wide until her knees are touching the bed.
- The man lies on top of her face-to-face with his pelvis between her legs.
Performing the Missionary Sex Position
The man enters the woman and makes love to her with a slow, steady rhythm while kissing her lips, neck, or breasts. She can guide his thrusts by placing her hands on his butt or wrap her legs around his legs and squeeze to the rhythm she wants.
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Overweight couples may find it challenging to perform the missionary position. These simple and easy position adjustments might help you enjoy this pose more. Half of the fun is trying, right?
- Less Pressure: Instead of lying on top of her, support your upper body with your arms. This removes the pressure on her and makes it more comfortable and easier for her to breath.
- Deeper Penetration and More G-Spot Stimulation: A slight change in the angle of penetration changes everything! Lift your pelvis and tilt it back a little for deeper penetration and more g-spot stimulation. This is best accomplished using a Liberator Wedge Sex Pillow positioned with the high side facing her feet. A firm, folded pillow placed under your butt might work, but it won’t do as good of a job tilting your pelvis or supporting your weight.
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Tips & Techniques for More Stimulation
Clitoral Stimulation:
- Vibrating Ring: Wear a vibrating ring around the base of your penis, so it stimulates her clitoris while making love.
- Scream Cream: Apply a drop or two of scream cream to your clitoris before having sex to amplify the stimulation.
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SLS says
There are many ways to spice up this tried and true position. One of the advantages of this position is being able to whispering sweet nothings in your lovers ear. This greatly increases the pleasure of sex. The visuals in this position are almost second to none, especially for husbands. Be sure to look around and complement what you see.
The husband can also lay on his wife and reach under her to grab her behind. Be sure though to get back up so that the wife isn’t bearing all the weight.
Also if the wife doesn’t want to move her legs up as far as described in other positions (like Reclining Lotus or Seduction) she can put her legs up and wrap them around her husband’s waist.