Scroll down for details about getting into this pose, tips plus-size couples will appreciate, and techniques that enhance g-spot, clitoral, and breast stimulation.
How to Have Sex in the Open Sesame Position
- The wife lies on her side in bed with her head on a pillow and her legs straight out.
- Her husband lies behind her with his legs straight out behind hers.
- He wraps his lower arm under her neck and places his hand on her breasts.
- She bends her upper leg at the knee and points her knee up towards the ceiling.
- The husband uses his upper arm to help his wife support her bent leg by placing his hand on her hamstring under her knee.
- The wife tilts her pelvis back and pokes her butt out, so her vagina is more accessible for penetration.
The husband enters his wife and uses the leverage from his arms to have sex from behind with powerful thrusts. She can control the amount of g-spot stimulation and depth of his thrusts by changing the angle of penetration by tilting her pelvis frontwards or backward.
For example, if the wife desires more g-spot stimulation or deeper penetration, she would arch her back a little and tilt her pelvis back, so her butt pokes out behind her. This will align her vagina and her husband’s penis at the perfect angle for deep penetration and g-spot stimulation.
Sex Tips for Plus Size Women and Men
Open Sesame can be a comfortable and enjoyable sex position for overweight couples, too, with a few modifications.
- Leg Tiredness: Holding your leg straight up can get pretty hard after a while. Have your husband place his hand in your knee pit and then bend your knee. This still makes you accessible for him while making you more comfortable while holding your leg up during sex.
- Better Access: If your butt is pleasantly plump, poke it out and tilt your pelvis back while arching your back a little. This will bring your vulva closer to him and make penetration easier.
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Tips & Techniques That Add More Stimulation
This position naturally generates g-spot stimulation, but if she remains on her side during this position, she’ll feel it more. If possible, the husband should stay as far behind his wife’s butt as possible, so the angle of his thrust is more likely to allow his penis to slide over her g-spot as he enters her. Recommended Reading: How to Increase G-Spot Stimulation During Sex
The husband’s lower arm is in the perfect location to stimulate his wife’s breasts while having sex. Use your hand or a small vibrator to stimulate her nipples while making love.
This position opens up her vulva for external stimulation during sex. Instead of holding her upper leg, use your fingers and a drop or two of scream cream or press a bullet vibrator or pressure wave clitoral stimulator on her clitoris during lovemaking to give toe-curling orgasms.