Sandwich Sex Position: How to Do It, 4 Tips That Spice It Up

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This stick figure image depicts a man and woman having sex in the Sandwich sex position. The woman is lying on her back with her knees at her chest and knees bent. The man is lying between her legs and supports his upper body with his hands on the underside of her thighs.

What is the Sandwich sex position?

Sandwich is a husband-on-top sex position with very deep penetration, good g-spot stimulation, and access for manual clitoral stimulation.

Scroll down for details about getting into this pose, a tip plus-size couples will appreciate, and techniques that enhance clitoral and g-spot stimulation or add nipple stimulation.

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How to Have Sex in the Sandwich Position

The wife lies on her back.
Kneel in front of her.
Open her legs and bring them back until her knees are near the sides of her breasts.
Place your hands on her hamstrings near the underside of her knees, and allow her to bend and relax her lower legs.

Gently press down on the underside of your wife’s knees to roll her pelvis back a little and then enter her. Use the pressure being applied to her legs to control the angle of penetration as you make love with hard, fast thrusting. Apply more pressure to her legs for more g-spot stimulation.

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Sex Tips for Plus Size Women and Men

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Sandwich can be a delightful sex position for pleasantly plump couples, too, with the help of a simple technique.

Better Accessibility: Lift her pelvis by placing a firm, folded pillow or Liberator Wedge Sex Pillow under her butt. This will lift her pelvis and allow gravity to pull her belly back a little so she’s more accessible during sex. The added height will change the angle of penetration so that her g-spot is stimulated more too.

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How to Spice up the Sandwich Sex Position

Use your fingers and maybe a drop or two of scream cream, a small vibrator, or pressure wave clitoral stimulator to stimulate your clitoris so you can orgasm with your husband while having sex. Check out our in-depth guide on Increasing Clitoral Stimulation During Sex!
Place a wedge sex pillow under your butt with the high side facing away from you to lift and tilt your pelvis to the perfect angle for maximum g-spot stimulation.
Wear a pair of nipple vibrators or suckers to stimulate your breasts and encourage oxytocin production, which helps bring on an orgasm.