Scarf Cunnilingus Position: How to Do It, 5 Tips That Spice It Up

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This stick figure image depicts a man and woman engaging in oral sex in the Scarf cunnilingus sex position. The woman is lying on her back with her legs up in the air and knees bent. The man is lying on his stomach with his face between her legs next to her pelvis. Her hands are on his head, and his hands are holding her hips.

Scarf is a cunnilingus oral sex position that makes the wife’s vulva and surrounding area more available for stimulation during foreplay.

Scroll down for details about getting into this pose, a tip plus-size couples will love, and techniques that enhance clitoral stimulation and add g-spot and breast stimulation.

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How to Give Cunnilingus in the Scarf Position

The wife lies on her back with a pillow under her head.
She lifts her legs straight up and bends her knees halfway, and opens them slightly. She’s in a seated position.
The husband lies before her with his face between her legs.

The husband stimulates his wife with his mouth.

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The Scarf Cunnilingus Position is very nice, but some pleasantly plump couples might find it difficult to enjoy without this easy position modification.

Better Access: Lift her pelvis so that her vulva is closer to your face, and gravity can pull her belly back a little by placing a Liberator Wedge Sex Pillow with the high side facing you or a firm, folded pillow under her butt. The additional lift will also make it easier for her to hold her legs up and give her neck a break.

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How to Spice up the Scarf Cunnilingus Position

Apply a drop or two of edible tingling gel on your wife’s clitoris for additional stimulation while giving her cunnilingus. Give your tongue a break and use a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris.
Use a curved dildo or g-spot vibrator to stimulate her g-spot while giving your wife cunnilingus.
Reach out over your head and caress her breasts with your hands and gently roll her nipples between your fingers. Apply a drop or two of scream cream to her nipples to spice things up. She can start by wearing a pair of nipple suckers for a little while to make them more sensitive to your touch. Recommended Reading: Benefits of Breast Stimulation During Foreplay & Sex