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Scarf Cunnilingus Position

Scarf is a cunnilingus oral sex position that makes the wife’s vulva and surrounding area more available for stimulation during foreplay.

An illustration of the Scarf sex position. This picture demonstrates how Scarf is a cunnilingus oral sex position that makes the woman's vulva and surrounding area more available for stimulation.
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Getting Into the Scarf Cunnilingus Pose

  1. The wife lies on her back with a pillow under her head.
  2. She lifts her legs straight up and bends her knees halfway, and opens them slightly. She’s in a seated position.
  3. The husband lies before her with his face between her legs.

Technique

The husband stimulates his wife with his mouth.

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Sex Tips for Full-Figured Couples

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The Scarf Cunnilingus Position is very nice, but some overweight couples might find it difficult to enjoy without this easy position modification.

  • Better Access: Lift her pelvis so that her vulva is closer to your face, and gravity can pull her belly back a little by placing a Liberator Wedge Sex Pillow with the high side facing you or a firm, folded pillow under her butt. The additional lift will also make it easier for her to hold her legs up and give her neck a break.

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Sex Tips & Techniques for More Stimulation

  • Clitoral Stimulation: Apply a drop or two of edible tingling gel on your wife’s clitoris for additional stimulation while giving her cunnilingus. Give your tongue a break and use a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris.
  • G-Spot Stimulation: Use a curved dildo or g-spot vibrator to stimulate her g-spot while giving your wife cunnilingus.
  • Nipple & Breast Stimulation: Reach out over your head and caress her breasts with your hands and gently roll her nipples between your fingers. Apply a drop or two of scream cream to her nipples to spice things up. She can start by wearing a pair of nipple suckers for a little while to make them more sensitive to your touch. Recommended Reading: Benefits of Breast Stimulation During Foreplay & Sex

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