Grinder is a must try, husband-on-top sex position that allows him to grind on his wife’s clitoris with lots of pressure.

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How to Have Sex in the Grinder Position

1. The wife lies in the Missionary position.
2. The husband lies on top of her and enters her.
3. Next, the wife closes her legs, and the husband straddles her pelvis with his knees bent and by her sides while still inside her.
4. The husband can support his upper body with his elbows or hands on the bed (whichever works best and is most comfortable).

The husband pushes into his wife’s vagina so the skin just above the base of his penis presses firmly against his wife’s clitoris. Next, he grinds on her clitoris while maintaining constant, firm contact and making slight front-to-back or circular motions.

Why You’ll Love the Grinder Sex Position

For Her: The clitoral stimulation from this pose is very intense! It also allows you to orgasm while your husband is not thrusting, which feels unbelievable! This pose also causes your vagina to squeeze his penis while it’s deep inside.

For Him: This position makes it possible to give your wife an orgasm during intercourse and allows deep penetration with a tight fit from her legs being closed.

How to Spice up the Grinder Sex Position

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  Apply a few drops of scream cream to her clitoris before performing this position for extra clitoral stimulation. If your wife needs a lot of clitoral stimulation, the husband can wear a vibrating ring and press it against her.

Pleasure Garden is an edge-of-the-bed 69 oral sex position using a ramp sex pillow.

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How to Have Sex in the Pleasure Garden 69 Position

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1. Place a Liberator Ramp sex positioning aid on the edge of the bed with the low side of the ramp at the edge of the bed.
2. The husband helps his wife lie on top of the ramp on her back with her head hanging off the edge of the bed.
3. The husband stands before his wife and holds her hips to support her.

Important: Communication during this position is critical. Before you start, agree on a non-verbal signal to stop, such as a tap on the butt.

The husband inserts his penis into his wife’s mouth, and he gives her cunnilingus while she gives him a deep throat blowjob. The wife can place her hands on his butt and guide his thrusts.

Why You’ll Love the Pleasure Garden 69 Oral Sex Position

For Her: Your vulva will be front-and-center in your husband’s face so he can perform magic with his tongue. The strokes of his tongue will come from a different direction than normal cunnilingus so that it will feel a little different.

For Him: The feeling of thrusting (gently and shallowly) into your wife’s mouth feels amazing. Having easy access to her vulva eases the strain on your neck while giving her cunnilingus.

Position Transitions

Get off the bed, lean onto the ramp, and enjoy comfortable from-behind sex with good g-spot stimulation in the High Rise position.

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Get up and lay on the ramp at the edge of the bed with your knees up to your chest in the Take Flight position so you and your hubby enjoy deeply penetrating intercourse.

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Stack a wedge on top of the ramp in the middle of the bed and lay on it in the Smooth Operator position while your husband makes love to you from behind.

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Stack a wedge on top of the ramp in the middle of the bed and lay on it in the Reach for the Stars position so both of you can enjoy comfortable, deeply penetrating intercourse.

Eleven O’Clock is a comfortable, head-to-toe cunnilingus position where the man stimulates his wife’s vulva and clitoris from the side or while facing her feet. This position enables side-to-side instead of up-and-down tongue movements which is easier for some husbands and helps them give more pleasure to their wife.

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How to Give Cunnilingus in the Eleven O’Clock Position

1. The wife lies in bed with her head near the headboard.
2. The husband gets in bed, kneels near her shoulder, and then leans forward so that his head is near her vulva. If you’re standing at the foot of the bed the woman’s head would be at 12:00 and the man’s feet would be at 11:00 if he’s right-handed or 1:00 if he’s left-handed.
3. The husband can place his hands on his wife’s hips or use them to aid in pleasing her.

The husband stimulates his wife’s vulva and clitoris with his tongue from the side with side-to-side tongue motions.

Why You’ll Love the Eleven O’Clock Cunnilingus Position

For Her: This pose adds variety and newness from other cunnilingus positions. Your husband’s licks come from different angles than usual, which feels incredible. The Eleven O’Clock position also makes it easy for your husband to stimulate your g-spot with his fingers, dildo, or g-spot vibrator while giving you cunnilingus much easier than in other positions.

For Him: Holding on to your wife’s butt and giving her cunnilingus is amazing for butt lovers! The orientation of this pose also makes it easier to breathe while providing cunnilingus for some men.

How to Spice up the Eleven O’Clock Cunnilingus Position

• Double her pleasure by stimulating her g-spot while giving her cunnilingus. Use your fingers and the Come-Hither or Reverse Come-Hither techniques, or use a g-spot vibrator.
• Give your tongue a break and stimulate her clitoris with a little scream cream and your fingers or her favorite vibrator.

Position Transitions

The husband slides over into the 69 Inverted oral position so his wife can give him a BJ while he gives her cunnilingus.

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Spin around and make love to your wife in the Squashing the Deckchair position so both of you can enjoy deep, satisfying intercourse.

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Straddle your wife’s upper body and thrust gently into her mouth while she gives you a blowjob in the In Her Face position.

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Slip on a vibrating ring and grind on your wife in the Hula Bula position until she orgasms.

Reverse Missionary is an intimate, woman-on-top sex position with deep penetration and great clitoral stimulation.

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How to Have Sex in the Reverse Missionary Position

1. The husband lies on his back in bed with his legs together.
2. The wife straddles her husband while facing him and helps him enter her.
3. She leans forward and lies on top of him with her legs outstretched on each side of his legs.

The husband holds onto his wife’s butt while one or both of them make a rolling motion with their hips to make love to each other. This sex position provides exquisite clitoral stimulation from his penis when the wife rolls her pelvis back and out.

Why You’ll Love the Reverse Missionary Sex Position

For Her: This pose’s deep penetration and clitoral stimulation are fantastic. Try pressing your clitoris against your husband’s body when he’s entirely inside you, and make a grinding or circular motion with your pelvis. It feels so good! The body-to-body closeness of this position is very intimate, too.

For Him: This is one of those sex positions where you let her do her thing on you while you enjoy the ride. Reverse Missionary also helps you last longer during sex and allows you to hold on to her butt and maybe guide her motions. Try clasping your hands over her butt and pulling her against you, so her clitoris rubs firmly against your body.

How to Spice up the Reverse Missionary Sex Position

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  She can make her clitoris more sensitive by rubbing a drop or two of scream cream on it before sex. The husband can wear a vibrating ring on the base of his penis, so its vibrator stimulates her clitoris with heavenly vibrations.

Lap Dance is a from-behind, wife-on-top, seated sex position that allows manual clitoral stimulation and breast stimulation during sex.

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How to Have Sex in the Lap Dance Position

1. The husband gets on his knees with his legs together and then sits back onto the heels of his feet.
2. The wife straddles her husband’s pelvis while facing away from him.
3. She places her bent knees on the sides of his legs.

The wife helps her husband enter her, and then she makes a bouncing motion to have sex from behind while stimulating her clitoris with her fingers while he caresses her breasts.

How to Spice up the Lap Dance Sex Position

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  Use a drop or two of scream cream to make your clitoris more sensitive, or use a vibrator to stimulate your clitoris instead of your fingers.
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  Wear a pair of nipple suckers clamps to add more breast stimulation.

Gettin’ Jiggy With It is a wife-on-top sex position with deep penetration and clitoral stimulation. It also allows the husband to hold her butt during sex and enjoy her breasts in his face.

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How to Have Sex in the Gettin’ Jiggy With It Position

1. The husband lies on his back with his knees bent and brought up near his chest and legs spread wide.
2. The wife straddles her husband’s pelvis with her bent knees near his armpits and her feet near the sides of his butt.
3. She leans forward and supports her upper body with her hands near the sides of his head.

The husband enters his wife, and she bounces up and down or rolls her pelvis front to back to make love while he holds her butt with his hands and kisses her breasts that are in his face.

How to Spice up the Gettin’ Jiggy With It Sex Position

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  Rub a few drops of scream cream onto her clitoris before sex, or the man can wear a vibrating ring. Hence, the ring’s vibrator presses against her clitoris during lovemaking.
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  Place a sex wedge or folded pillow under his butt, so it lifts his pelvis and enables deeper penetration.

M and M (mammary and manual) is a husband-on-top manual stimulation position. The man thrusts his penis between his wife’s breasts while giving her cunnilingus or manual clitoral stimulation during foreplay.

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How to Have Manual Sex in the M and M Position

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1. The wife lies on her back with her legs spread apart and her arms near her side.
2. Generously apply thick personal lubricant between her breasts.
3. The husband lies on top of her with his penis between his wife’s boobs and his face near her vulva.

The wife squeezes her breasts together around her husband’s penis with her hands while he thrusts between her boobs and gives her oral sex or manual stimulation with his fingers.

How to Spice up the M and M Manual Stimulation Position

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  If you’re manually stimulating her clitoris with your fingers, add a drop or two of scream cream to increase her sensitivity and add a tingling sensation.
• Use a small vibrator to stimulate her clitoris or use a g-spot vibrator to stimulate her g-spot while giving her cunnilingus.
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  Place a wedge sex pillow under your wife’s bottom with the high side facing her feet, so it lifts and tilts her vulva for easier access.

Position Transitions

Spin around and have your wife lift her knees to her chest so you can make love to her in the Toad position, and both of you enjoy deep penetration.

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Raise your arms above your head while your husband lays on top of you in the Nirvana position and enjoy sensual, tight intercourse together.

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Circle around and have sex with your wife in the CAT position so she can enjoy lots of clitoral stimulation.

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Lift your pelvis a little, scoot back into the 69 position, and give your wife cunnilingus while she gives you fellatio.

Oath is a kneeling, from-behind manual stimulation position where the man stimulates the woman’s breast and clitoris with his hands.

Note: You can reverse the rolls in this manual stimulation position, so the woman stimulates the man during foreplay.

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How to Have Manual Sex in the Oath Position

1. The woman kneels with her knees together.
2. The man kneels behind her with his knees on the outside of her legs and presses his chest against her back.

The husband uses one hand to caress one of his wife’s breasts while he manually stimulates her clitoris with his other hand.

How to Spice up the Oath Manual Stimulation Position

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  Add a drop or two of scream cream to your fingers while manually stimulating her or use a small vibrator for maximum stimulation.

Position Transitions

The wife leans forward into the Pedal position, and she makes love to her husband using the movements described in the position.

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The woman gets on all fours while her husband makes love to her from behind in the Hound position with shallow penetration while he caresses her breasts.

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Sit back onto your husband and make love to him in the Lap Dance position with slight up and down or rolling back and forth movements while he caresses your breasts.

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Have your wife get on all fours while you make love to her with powerful thrusts in the Standing Froggy position.

Duet is a woman-on-top, seated manual stimulation position where the man or woman stimulates her clitoris with their fingers while holding each other during foreplay.

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How to Have Manual Sex in the Duet Position

1. The man sits in bed with his back against the headboard and legs open a little.
2. The woman sits between his legs with her back resting on his chest.

The husband reaches around and stimulates her clitoris with his fingers. She can put her hand on his and guide his movements or do it herself while he holds her.

How to Spice up the Duet Manual Stimulation Sex Position

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  Use a drop or two of scream cream to make her clitoris more sensitive and add a tingling sensation.
• Use a vibrator to really heat things up and ensure a sure thing.
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  Wear a pair of nipple suckers or pinchers to add breast stimulation while your husband manually stimulates your clitoris. Recommended Reading: Benefits of Breast Stimulation During Foreplay & Sex
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  If you’ve reversed the roll and the wife is stimulating her husband she can use a sleeve to maximize his enjoyment.

Rabbit is a kneeling, seated manual stimulation position where the woman or man manually stimulates her clitoris while holding each other during foreplay.

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How to Have Manual Sex in the Rabbit Position

1. The man kneels with his knees touching each other and then sits back on his heels.
2. The woman kneels in front of her husband with her back facing him and then sits in his lap with her knees on the outside of his knees.

The man or woman uses their fingers to stimulate her clitoris while the man grinds himself on her butt.

How to Spice up the Rabbit Manual Stimulation Position

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  Use a drop or two of scream cream to make her clitoris more sensitive and add a tingling sensation.
• For maximum stimulation, use a small vibrator to stimulate her clitoris and ensure an orgasm.
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  Place a pair of nipple suckers or pinchers on her breasts to add more stimulation. Recommended Reading: Benefits of Breast Stimulation During Foreplay & Sex
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  The man can apply a little personal lubricant on the underside of his penis and rub it in the crack of her butt while stimulating her with his hands. If you’ve reversed rolls the wife can use a sleeve to stimulate her husband instead of her hand.