Hold Me Manual Stimulation Position

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This stick figure image depicts a man and woman having sex in the Hold Me sex position. The woman is kneeling on the edge of the bed facing the bed. The man is standing behind her, stimulating her clitoris with one hand and breast with the other hand while having sex with her.

What is the Hold Me manual stimulation position?

Hold Me is a kneeling, edge-of-the-bed manual sex position where the husband rubs his wife’s clitoris with one hand and her breast with his other hand during foreplay.

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This pose also works well for giving your man a handjob.

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How to Have Manual Sex in the Hold Me Position

The wife kneels on the edge of the bed with her feet hanging off of it.
The husband stands between her legs behind her.

The husband uses one hand to stimulate his wife’s clitoris, and he caresses her breast with his other hand.

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How to Spice up the Hold Me Manual Stimulation Position

Use a drop of scream cream to make her clitoris more sensitive to your touch or press a vibrator against her clitoris for maximum stimulation.
Place a pair of nipple suckers or clamps on her nipples for hands-free nipple and breast stimulation.

Position Transitions

This stick figure image depicts a man and woman having sex in the Man On Fire sex position. The woman is standing at the edge of the bed and bent over with her upper body lying on the bed. The man is standing behind her with his hands on her hips.

Lean forward onto the bed while standing on the floor so your hubby can make love to you in the comfortable Man On Fire position.

This stick figure image depicts a man and woman having sex in the Mermaid sex position. The woman is lying on her back with her butt at the edge of the bed, her legs straight up in the air and together. The man is standing before her at the edge of the bed, holding onto her legs.

Turn around and lay on the edge of the bed in the Mermaid position, which is comfortable and has deep penetration.

This stick figure image depicts a man and woman engaging in oral sex in the Throat Swab blowjob sex position. The woman is lying on her back with her head off the edge of the bed and upside down. The man is standing at the edge of the bed with his pelvis near her face and caressing her breasts or stimulating her clitoris with his hands.

Lay on the bed with your head hanging off and give your man a blowjob in the Throat Swab position, which allows him to control the sensation.

This stick figure image depicts a man and woman engaging in oral sex in the 69 Edge of the Bed oral sex position. The woman is lying on her back with her head off the edge of the bed and her knees lifted to her chest. The man stands at the edge of the bed with his pelvis near her face and leaning forward so that his face is near her vulva.

Lay on the edge of the bed with your head hanging off and knees near your breasts in the 69 Edge of the Bed position and give him a BJ while he gives you cunnilingus.

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