High-Ridin’ Cowboy Sex Position

High-Ridin’ Cowboy is a husband-on-top sex position that uses a wedge sex pillow and creates a tight fit with deep penetration.

• Getting into This Position & Technique
• Tips for More Stimulation
• Similar Sex Positions
• User-Submitted Tips

How to Get Into the High-Ridin’ Cowboy Sex Position

1. The wife lies on her back with her legs together and a pillow under her head.
2. Lift her pelvis and place a wedge sex pillow under her butt with the high side facing her feet. If you don’t have a wedge, you could use a folded pillow, but it won’t tilt her pelvis to the perfect angle or give you the support you need.
3. Straddle your wife’s pelvis on your knees.
4. Place her hands on the sides of your butt so she can guide your movements.

How to Perform the High-Ridin’ Cowboy Sex Position

Enter your wife and make a front-to-back motion to make love to her, and allow her to guide your movements with her hands.

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Tips & Techniques That Add More Stimulation

• G-Spot Stimulation: Lean back a little, make a “J” with your pointer finger, and use it to pull up at the base of your penis so it presses against the top wall of her vagina and slides over her g-spot during sex. Recommended Reading: How to Increase G-Spot Stimulation During Sex
• Nipple & Breast Stimulation: Place a pair of nipple vibrators or suckers on your wife’s nipples to stimulate her breasts or use your hands to fondle and caress them. Recommended Reading: Benefits of Breast Stimulation During Foreplay & Sex
• Clitoral Stimulation: Use your fingers with a drop or two of scream cream to stimulate your clitoris while your husband rides you into orgasmic nirvana. If you need more clitoral stimulation, use a small vibrator or pressure wave clitoral stimulator to stimulate your clitoris during lovemaking. Check out our in-depth guide on Increasing Clitoral Stimulation During Sex!
• Create a Tighter Fit: Squeeze your legs together a little after your husband has entered you to create a tighter fit during sex and increase the stimulation for both of you.