What is the High-Ridin Cowboy sex position?
High-Ridin’ Cowboy is a husband-on-top sex position that uses a wedge sex pillow and creates a tight fit with deep penetration.
Scroll down for details about getting into this pose and tips that enhance g-spot, clitoral, and breast stimulation and create a tighter fit.

How to Have Sex in the High-Ridin’ Cowboy Position
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- The wife lies on her back with her legs together and a pillow under her head.
- Lift her pelvis and place a wedge sex pillow under her butt with the high side facing her feet. If you don’t have a wedge, you could use a folded pillow, but it won’t tilt her pelvis to the perfect angle or give you the support you need.
- Straddle your wife’s pelvis on your knees.
- Place her hands on the sides of your butt so she can guide your movements.
Enter your wife and make a front-to-back motion to make love to her, and allow her to guide your movements with her hands.
Enhance Pleasure of the High-Ridin’ Cowboy Sex Position
Lean back a little, make a “J” with your pointer finger and use it to pull up at the base of your penis so it presses against the top wall of her vagina and slides over her g-spot during sex. Recommended Reading: How to Increase G-Spot Stimulation During Sex
Place a pair of nipple vibrators or suckers on your wife’s nipples to stimulate her breasts, or use your hands to rub and caress them. Recommended Reading: Benefits of Breast Stimulation During Foreplay & Sex
Use your fingers with a drop or two of scream cream to stimulate your clitoris while your husband rides you into orgasmic nirvana. If you need more clitoral stimulation, use a small vibrator or pressure wave clitoral stimulator to stimulate your clitoris during lovemaking. Check out our in-depth guide on Increasing Clitoral Stimulation During Sex!
Squeeze your legs together after your husband has entered you to create a tighter fit during sex and increase the stimulation for both of you.
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