Sex Positions for Plus-Size Couples

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Okay, let’s face the fact that many couples have one or both spouses that are overweight; although we’d rather call them pleasantly plump or BBW (big beautiful women) instead. Each person carries their weight in different spots on their frame and has a unique body shape. Extra fat on the body can make some sex positions challenging for couples. Here are a few tips overweight couples can use to enjoy sex more.

Use a Sex Pillow: We are HUGE fans of sex furniture and shapes. Their ergonomic design supports your body for comfortable lovemaking and prevents sinking in the bed. These sex positioning aids also lift and tilt your body in the perfect poses for breathtaking stimulation and increased stamina.

Better Access: Sometimes you have to get a little creative during sex if you or your spouse is chubby. Sex poses such as Comfy, Super Missionary, or Adapted Missionary are excellent for plus-size couples, but you might need to place a pillow between your legs or a wedge sex pillow under your butt to make it work. Half of the fun is trying, right? A sex pillow is well worth the investment in our opinion.

Big Belly? No Problem. A common complaint from spouses is that their partner has such a big stomach that it makes most sex positions challenging. Try placing a wedge positioning aid under your spouse’s butt with the high side of the wedge facing their feet. This will lift and tilt their pelvis so that gravity pulls their belly away from their groin and give you better access. This works for many woman and man on top sex poses. If your spouse’s stomach is huge, use a ramp sex pillow instead of a wedge.

Have you seriously considered losing weight? Our friend, J. Parker wrote a great post “Hubbies, Losing Weight Could Improve Your Sex Life” that’s worth a read.