What is the Reverse Grinding the Corn sex position?
Reverse Grinding the Corn (reverse coital alignment technique, or CAT) is a woman-on-top, must try sex position with deep penetration and excellent clitoral stimulation.
Scroll down for details about getting into this pose, a tip plus-size couples will appreciate, and techniques that enhance clitoral stimulation.
How to Have Sex in the Reverse Grinding the Corn Position
- The husband lies on his back with his legs together, pointing straight out.
- His wife straddles his pelvic area with her knees bent, resting near his shoulders.
- The wife allows her husband to enter her.
- She slides her pelvis back towards her husband’s feet so that his penis rubs her clitoris on its way out.
- Once his penis has almost completely exited her vagina, she moves her pelvis forward so that his penis rubs her vagina on its way back in.
This sex position takes some practice, but it’s well worth the effort.
If you can’t get the hang of this position, allow him to fully enter you and then grind your clitoris on his pubic bone. This will give you a similar effect.
We highly recommend trying the Fantastic Hug Intercourse Technique with this position. It adds significant clitoral stimulation!
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Sex Tips for Plus Size Women and Men
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Reverse Grinding the Corn is an amazing sex position, but some full-figured couples might have difficulty enjoying it unless they use this easy position adjustment.
- Better Access: Lift his pelvis so that gravity pulls his belly away from his groin and pokes his penis out for deeper penetration by placing a Liberator Wedge Sex Pillow with the high side pointing at his feet or a folded, firm pillow under his butt. This will allow much deeper penetration and better control.
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How to Spice up the Reverse Grinding the Corn Sex Position
Apply a dab of scream cream on her clitoris before lovemaking to add additional stimulation while making love to her. Wear a vibrating ring at the base of your penis while making love to your wife so the ring’s vibrator can stimulate her clitoris during intercourse. Check out our in-depth guide on Increasing Clitoral Stimulation During Sex!- The husband can place his hands on the small of his wife’s back and press down while she’s making a front to back movement. This will create orgasmic clitoral stimulation.
Press your breasts against your husband’s face so he can kiss and suck on them while having sex. Recommended Reading: Benefits of Breast Stimulation During Foreplay & Sex
Sex Routines This Position Is a Part Of
If you like this pose, you should try enjoying it during one of these sex routines.
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MiniskirtDay says
Reiterating the point above. As w/ most woman-on-top positions, don’t go in a up-&-down motion. We couldn’t quite get the hang of the motion described above. However, a back-&-forth motion works so much better to keep her clitoris in contact w/ him & stimulated the whole time. A take-him-as-deep-as-you-can then tiny circles to stimulate the clitoris on his pelvic bone is also really nice.
Lastly, the wife controls the angle & how far she leans over. Try leaning just far enough that your breasts gently brush against his chest. The wife controls the stimulation on both breasts very well in this position. His chest hairs can provide a delightful tingle!
New Wife says
Go slow. Even slower. Enjoy the ridge of the head of his pens as it glides over your G-spot! Amazing!
LvsSx says
Love this, will try tonight. Thank you ladies for the tips. Will come back with mine, if I have any, after trying it out.
Elise says
This position feels amazing to me. I echo miniskirtDay above, the circular motions while my husband is deep in me feels so good. If you lean down and far enough disregard he can lick or suck on your nipples to add to the enjoyment.
As you progress you can adjust speed and pressure to make it last longer and also allow yourself to have multiple orgasms. I have also found this position hood for making small adjustments to get myself close to the point of no return and then lean back and reach around to stimulate my husband’s balls perineum, the ending result is both of us ending in orgasm at the same time which is an amazing climax to it all. Sometimes as I lean back he will manually stimulate my clitoris to continue to get me at the same time he does.
Jerry says
We sometimes have sex in this position with my wife still wearing her workout bra. I slip my penis out of her vagina, and slip it under the band of her sports bra and slide in between her held together breasts. We alternate thrusting between vagina and breasts just for fun, sometimes she lets me slip into her lips!
Husband Sojourner says
What a fantastic position. I echo the suggestions in this thread. Once she’s aroused, she loves my penis sliding out of her vagina and then grinding on the full shaft.
CFSP says
It’s definitely a favorite!
Scott says
We love this position and My Love can sometimes squirt two to three times. Our tip is firstly, have a towel which is under you. It’s nice to have dry sheets once all is done. Also, we will have a small hand towel. As this produces so much clitoral stimulation, we will usually switch positions to husband on top so I can thrust and finish. The small towel we use as a quick external wipe down. We can be so wet and since sound is often a concern, all the extra wetness can make significantly more…distinct noises. To have a towel is handy for a quick clean up before we continue. Happy loving!