See Saw Sex Position: How to Do It, 4 Tips That Spice It Up

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What is the See-Saw sex position?

See-Saw is a wife-on-top sex position with good g-spot stimulation, easy access for manual clitoral stimulation, and a great view of the action.

Scroll down for details about getting into this pose, a tip plus-size couples will enjoy, and techniques that enhance clitoral, g-spot, and nipple stimulation.

This stick figure image depicts a man and woman having sex in the See-Saw sex position. The man is sitting with his legs straight out, and he's supporting his upper body with his arms behind him. The woman is straddling his pelvis while facing him. Her feet are on the bed next to his hands; she's leaning back, and her hands support her body on the bed near his feet. She's using her feet and arms to hover her pelvis over his. — See Saw Sex Position Diagram

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How to Have Sex in the See-Saw Position

The husband sits with his legs straight out and slightly opened.
He leans back a little and supports his upper body with his hands flat on the bed behind him.
The wife sits on her husband’s lap while facing him.
She bends her knees and rests her feet near her husband’s hands.
She supports her upper body with her hands on her husband’s legs or the bed.

The husband enters his wife, and she uses her legs to thrust. She can control the angle of penetration by rotating her pelvis towards or away from her husband. The husband can stimulate his wife’s breasts or clitoris using one of the techniques below.

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Sex Tips for Plus Size Women and Men

The See-Saw Sex Position’s great view can be enjoyed by plus-size couples, too, with a few simple modifications.

Better Access: Place one or two firm, folded pillows under his butt to lift it. Have your husband lean back more than this position initially calls for, and have him support his upper body on his elbows instead of his hands. His lifted pelvis and more leaned back upper body will pull back his belly a little and make him more available for deeper penetration.

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How to Spice up the See-Saw Sex Position

The husband can support himself with one arm and use the other to stimulate his wife’s clitoris with some scream cream and his fingers. He can use a small vibrator or pressure wave clitoral stimulator if she needs a lot of stimulation. Wives, you can really turn on your husband if you do this and let him watch. Check out our in-depth guide on Increasing Clitoral Stimulation During Sex!
Place a pair of nipple suckers/pinchers on your wife’s nipples before making love to enjoy additional breast stimulation and the release of oxytocin which helps her feel connected and able to orgasm easier.
Generate more g-spot stimulation by supporting your upper body on your elbows while making love to your husband. This will change the angle of penetration and allow his penis to slide over your g-spot more during sex. Recommended Reading: How to Increase G-Spot Stimulation During Sex