Fire Starter is a spooning manual stimulation position that’s great for stimulating her clitoris and g-spot with your hand while grinding on her butt during foreplay.

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How to Have Manual Sex in the Fire Starter Position

1. The wife lies on her side with her top leg bent at 90 degrees with her knee halfway up to her chest and her bottom leg less bent than her top leg and brought up about a fourth of the way to her chest.
2. Her bottom arm is raised above her head, and she has a pillow between her arm and head.
3. The husband lies on his side behind her and spoons her.
4. He places his lower elbow on the bed and rests his head in that hand.

The husband uses his hand to stimulate his wife’s clitoris and g-spot while he grinds on her butt.

Sex Tip: This manual stimulation transitions perfectly into a spooning sex position when you guys are ready to make love.

How to Spice up the Fire Starter Manual Stimulation Position

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  Use a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris and g-spot instead of your hands.

Inverted Spoon is a from-behind, spooning sex position with good g-spot stimulation.

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How to Have Sex in the Inverted Spoon Position

1. The wife lies on her side with her knees pulled towards her chest a little with her lower arm’s elbow on the bed and her head resting in that hand.
2. The husband lies on his side behind his wife with his head near her feet with his lower arm’s elbow on the bed and his head resting in that hand.
3. She arches her back a little and rolls her pelvis out towards her husband to make penetration easier and g-spot stimulation stronger.
4. She lifts her upper leg so her hubby can enter her and then lowers it once he’s inside.
5. The husband places his upper hand on his wife’s butt, and she puts her upper hand on his hand.

The husband thrusts to have sex from behind. She can help by pushing back as he thrusts during lovemaking.

How to Spice up the Inverted Spoon Sex Position

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  The wife can use her fingers or a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris while having sex with her husband. He can try too, but it might be challenging the way your bodies are positioned.

Dart is a comfortable, from-behind sex position that creates a tight fit and is enjoyed while both spouses are on their sides.

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How to Have Sex in the Dart Position

1. The wife lies on her side and then brings her legs straight in front of her at a 90-degree angle.
2. The husband lies next to his wife so that his pelvis is in position for sex and his head is near her feet.
3. Both spouses can either put a pillow under their heads or rest their heads in their hands supported by their elbows on the bed.

The husband enters his wife and places his upper hand on her butt while having sex from behind.

How to Spice up the Dart Sex Position

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  The wife can use her fingers with a bit of scream cream or a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris while making love to her husband.
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  The wife squeezes her thighs together to create a tighter fit and more friction during intercourse.
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  The wife can help generate g-spot stimulation by arching her back and rolling her hips back. The husband can help by moving down a little, so the angle of penetration provides more g-spot stimulation.

Spoon is a very comfortable, sex from behind, must try sex position with good g-spot stimulation and access for manual clitoral stimulation. This sex position is also great for pregnant women.

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How to Have Sex in the Spoon Position

1. The wife lies on her side with a pillow under her head.
2. Her husband lies on his side behind her with his lower arm under her pillow and his upper arm’s hand on her butt or thigh.

The husband enters his wife, and they have sex from behind while holding her butt or thigh for leverage.

Sex Tips for Plus Size Women and Men

Spoon is a great sex position almost any couple can enjoy, but pleasantly plump couples might need to make a few adjustments to really enjoy it.

• Big Belly or Butt? If the husband has a big belly or his wife’s butt is pleasantly plump, he’ll need to adjust the angle of penetration by moving his upper body away from her back so that he can easily enter her.
• Better Access: If the husband is having trouble entering his wife, she can try placing a folded pillow between her legs to make herself more accessible.

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How to Spice up the Spoon Sex Position

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  Reach over and stimulate your wife’s clitoris with your fingers and a bit of scream cream or a small vibrator during sex. Check out our in-depth guide on Increasing Clitoral Stimulation During Sex!
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  Use your upper hand to caress and stimulate your wife’s breasts and nipples to release oxytocin, giving her the feeling of bonding and helps her to orgasm. Recommended Reading: Benefits of Breast Stimulation During Foreplay & Sex

Slide On Down is a comfortable, must-try fellatio position inspired by Awaken Love that’s easy on the wife’s neck while both spouses lie on their sides during foreplay.

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How to Give a Blowjob in the Slide On Down Position

1. The husband lies on his side with a pillow under his head.
2. His wife lies on her side with her face near her husband’s pelvis and a pillow under her head.

The wife gives her husband a blowjob and uses a free hand to hold onto his butt. The husband can place a free hand on his wife’s head and guide her motions during foreplay.

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How to Spice up the Slide On Down Blowjob Position

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  Instead of using your free hand to hold his butt, use it to stimulate your clitoris with your fingers and a little scream cream or a bullet vibrator. This will give lots of pleasure to both of you!
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  Use a small sleeve over your husband’s penis to provide more stimulation during foreplay.
• Slide On Down is an excellent blowjob position for deepthroating. The wife can place a hand on her husband’s butt for leverage, and the husband can help guide her with his hand on her head.

Open Sesame is a comfortable, from-behind, spooning sex position that enables powerful thrusts with great g-spot stimulation.

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How to Have Sex in the Open Sesame Position

1. The wife lies on her side in bed with her head on a pillow and her legs straight out.
2. Her husband lies behind her with his legs straight out behind hers.
3. He wraps his lower arm under her neck and places his hand on her breasts.
4. She bends her upper leg at the knee and points her knee up towards the ceiling.
5. The husband uses his upper arm to help his wife support her bent leg by placing his hand on her hamstring under her knee.
6. The wife tilts her pelvis back and pokes her butt out, so her vagina is more accessible for penetration.

The husband enters his wife and uses the leverage from his arms to have sex from behind with powerful thrusts. She can control the amount of g-spot stimulation and depth of his thrusts by changing the angle of penetration by tilting her pelvis frontwards or backward.

For example, if the wife desires more g-spot stimulation or deeper penetration, she would arch her back a little and tilt her pelvis back, so her butt pokes out behind her. This will align her vagina and her husband’s penis at the perfect angle for deep penetration and g-spot stimulation.

Sex Tips for Plus Size Women and Men

Open Sesame can be a comfortable and enjoyable sex position for pleasantly plump couples, too, with a few modifications.

• Leg Tiredness: Holding your leg straight up can get pretty hard after a while. Have your husband place his hand in your knee pit and then bend your knee. This still makes you accessible for him while making you more comfortable while holding your leg up during sex.
• Better Access: If your butt is pleasantly plump, poke it out and tilt your pelvis back while arching your back a little. This will bring your vulva closer to him and make penetration easier.

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How to Spice up the Open Sesame Sex Position

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  This position naturally generates g-spot stimulation, but if she remains on her side during this position, she’ll feel it more. If possible, the husband should stay as far behind his wife’s butt as possible, so the angle of his thrust is more likely to allow his penis to slide over her g-spot as he enters her. Recommended Reading: How to Increase G-Spot Stimulation During Sex
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  The husband’s lower arm is in the perfect location to stimulate his wife’s breasts while having sex. Use your hand or a small vibrator to stimulate her nipples while making love.
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  This position opens up her vulva for external stimulation during sex. Instead of holding her upper leg, use your fingers and a drop or two of scream cream or press a bullet vibrator or pressure wave clitoral stimulator on her clitoris during lovemaking to give toe-curling orgasms.

April Fool’s Paradise is an intimate, comfortable, from-behind sex position where the husband has easy access to your breasts.

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How to Have Sex in the April Fool’s Paradise Position

1. The wife lies on her back with her legs together, pointing straight up in the air.
2. The husband lies on his side with his pelvis near his wife’s bottom and his lower elbow supporting his upper body near her shoulder.
3. She lowers one or both of her legs and drapes them over her husband’s body.

The husband enters his wife, and they have sex from behind. He can stimulate her breasts or stimulate her clitoris with his free hand while making love to her.

How to Spice up the April Fool’s Paradise Sex Position

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  Wear a pair of nipple suckers/vibrators for additional breast stimulation while making love to your husband.
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  Apply a drop of scream cream to her clitoris, and the husband or his wife can manually stimulate it with their fingers while making love.

Whisper is an intimate sex position with deep penetration that’s enjoyed while both spouses are on their sides in a reverse spooning position.

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How to Have Sex in the Whisper Position

1. The wife lies on her side with a pillow under her head.
2. She brings her knees up to her chest  and then opens her legs.
3. Her husband lies on his side between her open legs.
4. He rests his upper body on his elbow.
5. She wraps her legs around him.
6. He uses his free hand to hold her back or bottom.

The husband enters his wife and makes love to her. She can use her free hand to play with his ears, caress his face, or stimulate his testicles.

How to Spice up the Whisper Sex Position

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  Wear a vibrating ring on the base of your penis to the ring’s vibrator will stimulate your wife’s clitoris during lovemaking. Apply a dab of scream cream to your wife’s clitoris so she can enjoy extra stimulation while making love to you.

Headrest is a comfortable fellatio oral sex position that’s enjoyed in bed while on your sides during foreplay.

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How to Give a Blowjob in the Headrest Position

1. The husband lies on his right side.
2. He points his left knee straight up and rests his foot on the bed.
3. He pulls his right leg up towards his chest a little to give his wife a place to rest her head.
4. His wife lies on her left side and rests her head on her husband’s thigh near his penis.

The wife takes him in her mouth and gives her husband a blow job.

How to Spice up the Headrest Blowjob Position

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  Wear a hands-free vibrator while giving hubby fellatio so you can enjoy it too.
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  Rub some edible lube on your husband’s penis for a tasty, juicy treat during fellatio.
• Use a Helping Head Sleeve to add stimulation while giving your husband fellatio.
• Press a small vibrator gently against his testicles while giving him fellatio for extra stimulation.

Ear Muffs is a rear-access cunnilingus oral sex position where the wife gently squeezes her husband’s head during foreplay.

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How to Give Cunnilingus in the Ear Muffs Position

1. The wife lies on her right side.
2. Her husband lies behind her on his left side so that his head is near her bottom. Their bodies should resemble a T.
3. The wife lifts her left leg, and her husband scoots up so that his face is between her legs.
4. She gently lowers her leg so that it squeezes her husband’s head.

The husband stimulates his wife with his mouth while she clutches his head with her thighs.

How to Spice up the Ear Muffs Cunnilingus Position

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  Apply a few drops of edible tingling gel to your wife’s clitoris so she can enjoy extra stimulation while you give her cunnilingus.